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Practical Public Speaking Tips That Improve Audience Engagement at Security Events

Whether you thrive on stage or dread it, Kirsten’s public speaking tips highlight one essential truth: preparation and intentionality are everything.

Your CFP was approved and you’re about to give a public talk.

Before giving a getting on stage at a large (or small) event:

You've gotta get your entire talk that you want give people down to:

What is the core ride or die message?

That is your through-line in all of your stuff.

Everything must be connected to that.

And then do NOT embrace every single of your 40 talking points.

Find five.

And those five should matter to your person.

If you don't know if they'll matter to your person, you haven't done your research.

Brutally honest insights from Kirsten Rourke, founder of Rourke Training, Performance and Engagement Coaching for Speakers Who Love the Spotlight and Those Who Have to Survive It.

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Insights and Key Takeaways

Identify Your Core Message and Make It Your Anchor 🎯

Insight: Before stepping on stage, Kirsten emphasizes the importance of distilling your entire presentation down to one “ride-or-die” message. This core idea should be the through-line connecting every part of your talk, ensuring clarity and focus.

For speakers, especially in complex fields like cybersecurity, where there can be an overwhelming amount of technical details, a single core message keeps the audience focused.

It’s easy to get lost in jargon or excessive information, but an anchored, central message allows you to convey what’s truly important.

When presenting data-heavy or technical content, this approach helps maintain engagement by simplifying complex ideas into a cohesive narrative.

Kirsten’s advice is essential for executives who might need to translate these ideas for non-technical audiences, like board members or business stakeholders.

“What is the core ride-or-die message? That is your through-line in all of your stuff. Everything must be connected to that.”

Kirsten Rourke

Limit Your Talking Points to What Truly Matters to Your Audience

Insight: Kirsten advises speakers to be ruthless in choosing their content, focusing on just five key points that will resonate most with the audience. This focus ensures that each point adds value and doesn’t overwhelm listeners.

Why only five points?

In a space like cybersecurity, where the impulse might be to cover every possible angle, limiting your main points forces you to prioritize what’s most relevant and impactful.

If your audience leaves with only a few key insights, they’re far more likely to retain and act on them.

This selective approach is especially useful when presenting to mixed audiences or those unfamiliar with technical content; it helps them stay engaged and follow the thread of your message without getting lost in the weeds.

Not sure if your points matter? That’s a sign you need to know your audience better.

Mastering “Know Your Audience” for Technical Talks

Insight: When presenting technical or data-heavy information, it’s crucial to adapt your language and examples to the audience’s level of understanding. Kirsten suggests focusing on relatable concepts and avoiding unnecessary jargon.

Whether you’re presenting in a cybersecurity conference or briefing non-technical executives, knowing your audience allows you to adjust your message for maximum impact.

It’s easy to get stuck in complex terminology, but without proper audience research, even the best points can fall flat.

Tailoring your message not only boosts engagement but also helps build credibility with those outside of your field, as they’ll appreciate the effort to make technical information accessible and relevant to them.

Engage Your Audience, Even with Technical Content

Insight: Keeping a crowd engaged during technical presentations can be challenging. Kirsten recommends focusing on relatability, simplifying complex data, and using storytelling techniques to keep the audience connected to your message.

In cybersecurity and other tech-heavy fields, presentations are often dense and detail-oriented, risking audience fatigue or disengagement.

But by turning your data into relatable stories or using real-life examples, you give the audience an emotional entry point.

This approach also helps introverted professionals who may feel uncomfortable presenting, as it shifts focus from them to the story they’re telling, providing a framework that’s more natural and engaging for listeners.

Use Body Language to Strengthen Your Presence

Insight: Non-verbal communication, like body language and eye contact, plays a significant role in enhancing your presentation. kirsten highlights that a confident posture and engaging body language help reinforce your message and build connection with the audience.

Public speaking isn’t just about words; it’s about presence. In cybersecurity, where talks often include critical data or serious implications, body language can subtly underscore the importance of your message.

Confident non-verbal cues project authority and openness, helping even technical audiences feel more connected and engaged.

For introverts or those new to public speaking, focusing on small improvements—like posture and eye contact—can help them feel more grounded and effective on stage.

Don’t Talk Like an Auditor—Avoid Common Public Speaking Pitfalls

Insight: One major mistake speakers make, especially in data-heavy presentations, is sounding too much like an auditor—overly rigid, detail-obsessed, and devoid of human connection. Kirsten urges professionals to avoid KPIs and metrics that aren’t relevant to the broader audience and to communicate in an accessible, engaging way.

Cybersecurity presentations are often data-heavy, but reciting metrics without context or connection will lose even the most interested audience.

Instead, professionals should focus on why their insights matter and how they impact the larger business picture.

Avoiding an auditor’s rigid, “black and white” tone allows presenters to make even complex information feel approachable and meaningful, bridging the gap between data and the everyday implications for the audience.

Preparation is Key—Especially When Presenting Complex Data

Insight: Kirsten emphasizes that regular practice is critical for speakers presenting detailed or data-intensive material. Her advice includes rehearsing for clarity, experimenting with delivery, and practicing pacing to maintain the audience’s interest.

Regular practice makes complex presentations more polished and accessible.

When discussing intricate data or analytics, every minute of practice pays off by allowing speakers to present confidently and naturally.

Regular rehearsal also helps refine messaging and discover the best ways to convey challenging concepts in simple terms, preparing professionals to handle audience questions without feeling flustered.

This kind of preparation is key to delivering a presentation that flows well and keeps the audience engaged, even with dense material.

My Final Thoughts: From the Spotlight-Lovers to the Spotlight-Survivors 💬

Whether you thrive on stage or dread it, Kirsten’s public speaking tips highlight one essential truth: preparation and intentionality are everything.

From clarifying your core message to connecting with the audience through body language, each step brings you closer to a memorable, impactful presentation.

As Kirsten puts it, engaging an audience isn’t just about the content you’re delivering but how well you deliver it.

Embrace these techniques, and even the most technical presentations can resonate with everyone in the room, from the data-driven exec to the newcomer.

Until next time,
Dani

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